tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8582988510371005864.post8686753672514297529..comments2010-05-09T17:03:05.248-07:00Comments on Exploring Wife Led Marriage: And just like that...mrbaldwinhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08012415139168708609noreply@blogger.comBlogger5125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8582988510371005864.post-86117021604499475592010-02-09T06:58:07.169-08:002010-02-09T06:58:07.169-08:00I have also read AHF and found it a pretty quick r...I have also read AHF and found it a pretty quick read. My wife and I are in the infant stages of a FLR. I have enjoyed follwoing several blogs such as this one, femdom101 and several others. <br /><br />I have actually started blogging myself and you can click on my name to follow my blog or find us at foreverhers. I believe its http://foreverhers.blogspot.com <br /><br />It's a scarey place for both husbands and wifes and one you enter a FLR its hard to go back. I honestly don't feel fulfilled unless I am serving her and finding a balance between this and vanilla life is a struggle.forever hershttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16361989778830646438noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8582988510371005864.post-57482971145373702182010-01-26T07:50:47.190-08:002010-01-26T07:50:47.190-08:00Advice for Julie:
The decision to expose your des...Advice for Julie:<br /><br />The decision to expose your desires to your wife is obviously very difficult. I grappled with it for at least two years before giving mine the AHF book, which I thought was a very gentle and non-threatening approach. In fact, I even "prepped" her for this with several seemingly encouraging conversations beforehand. Just know that the answer you get from your wife may not be what you envision (or hope for). Maybe it will be (I hope so!)... but go into this with open eyes: Many, many women find this ideal utterly repulsive - a complete contrast to their ideals of good marriage (a partnership based on mutual respect). My own wishful thinking completely clouded my judgment, and this led to a lot of frustration. Best wishes to you.shttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02177277829738299811noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8582988510371005864.post-64907935518241224332010-01-24T13:45:36.109-08:002010-01-24T13:45:36.109-08:00Thanks for the advice. I think this will be an ong...Thanks for the advice. I think this will be an ongoing challenge.mrbaldwinhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08012415139168708609noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8582988510371005864.post-91109902070404707052010-01-24T04:01:39.070-08:002010-01-24T04:01:39.070-08:00here are a couple of my previous posts....
http:/...here are a couple of my previous posts....<br /><br />http://subservient-husband.blogspot.com/2009/10/what-my-wife-wants.html<br /><br />http://subservient-husband.blogspot.com/2009/10/wantsneeds.html<br /><br />http://subservient-husband.blogspot.com/2009/08/rules.html<br /><br />I can relate to not being able to get across what I am feeling or want to say. I also have a problem being manipulative where I try an get what I want by subtle and indirect ways instead of just coming out and asking. These are things I am continuing to work on.Walter H. Schulze IIIhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00137440229102629342noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8582988510371005864.post-55475416376229433872010-01-24T02:18:04.083-08:002010-01-24T02:18:04.083-08:00Wow. I am right on the edge of exposing my desire...Wow. I am right on the edge of exposing my desires to my wife and your comments make me realize that if she agrees (just ordered "Around Her Finger" - should arrive in a week), patience will be the key word as we move slowly ahead. She is not into "kink" (nor I - and I don't really want that) so I am hoping the book helps her get past the fears of the unknown, thinking this is evil or "dirty". My wife, too, is not very creative sexually, so a guide book with examples of things to do/say to a husband demonstrating the wife's control would be helpful. Good luck, friend. I will be following your progress.Julie Bhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/18157499263074912718noreply@blogger.com